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Divorced Couples’ Co-Parenting Relationships Can Improve, MU Researcher Says

By Guest PostAugust 19, 2012Culturechildren, communicating issues, conflict, divorced couple, divorced mother, ex spouse, family studies, hostile relationship, human development, kansas state university, marilyn coleman, marriage, mindy markham, the bad, the good, the ugly, university of missouri

Focusing on children instead of relationship problems helps separated couples parent effectively, civilly

COLUMBIA, Mo. – New research conducted at the University of Missouri offers hope for divorced parents and suggests hostile relationships can improve when ex-spouses set aside their differences and focus on their children’s needs.

“Most people falsely believe that, when people get divorced, they’ll continue to fight, to be hostile,” said Marilyn Coleman, Curators’ Professor of Human Development and Family Studies at MU. “We found in our study that’s not always true. Some couples get along from the very beginning, and, for about half of the women we interviewed, the couples whose relationships started badly improved over time.” (more…)

Conflict Levels Don’t Change Much Over Course of Marriage

COLUMBUS, Ohio – Think about how much you fight and argue with your spouse today. A new study suggests that your current level of conflict probably won’t change much for the remainder of your marriage.

That may be good news for the 16 percent of couples who report little conflict or even the 60 percent who have only moderate levels of conflict. But it’s not such happy news for the 22 percent of couples who say they fight and argue with each other a lot.

The study followed nearly 1,000 couples over 20 years, from 1980 to 2000. (more…)

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Divorced Couples’ Co-Parenting Relationships Can Improve, MU Researcher Says

Conflict Levels Don’t Change Much Over Course of Marriage